Notice of Intended Marriage and Shortening of Time: What You Need to Know
Shortening of Time: planning a wedding can be an exciting yet overwhelming experience. Amidst all the preparations, it’s crucial to understand the legal requirements for getting married in Australia, especially if you’re on a tight timeline. This blog post will guide you through the process of lodging a Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) and explain how to shorten the notice period if necessary.
The Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM)
In Australia, couples must complete and lodge a Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) at least one month before their wedding date. This document not only serves as a formal declaration of your intention to marry but also provides essential details required by the Marriage Act.
Key Points:
Lodging the NOIM: You must submit the NOIM with an authorised Marriage Celebrant at least one month prior to your wedding.
Your authorised marriage celebrant will also need:. evidence of your date and place of birth (birth certificate or passport)
. identity (driver’s licence or passport)
. proof that a previous marriage has ended
. to meet separately and in person with each party to a marriage.
Sign the NOIM: The form must be signed in the presence of an authorized person, such as a celebrant or other authorised witness.
Shortening of Time
Life doesn’t always go as planned, and sometimes couples need to get married sooner than the mandatory one-month waiting period. The good news is that it is possible to shorten this time under certain special circumstances as outlined in the Marriage Act and Regulations .
Conditions for Shortening of Time:
To qualify for shortening the notice period, your situation must fall into one of the five categories specified by the regulations:
Employment-related or other travel commitments
Wedding or celebration arrangements, or religious considerations
Medical reasons
Legal proceedings
Error in giving notice
Steps for Shortening of Time Notice Period:
Contact a Marriage Celebrant. Find a celebrant who is willing to conduct your ceremony at short notice.
Complete the NOIM:
Fill out the Notice of Intended Marriage and provide it to your celebrant. Sign it in the presence of the celebrant or another authorised witness.
Choose a Date and Time: Decide on a tentative date and time for your ceremony. Remember, this can be changed if necessary.
Obtain a Letter from the Celebrant: Ask your celebrant for a letter confirming they have received your NOIM and are willing to conduct your marriage ceremony on the specified date and time, provided the approval for shortening of time is granted.
Approach a Prescribed Authority: Visit a Prescribed Authority with the letter from your celebrant and your NOIM.
Provide Supporting Documents: Ensure you bring all necessary documents, including birth certificates, passports, divorce papers, and any evidence supporting your reason for shortening the notice period (e.g., medical reports, employer’s letters, wedding receipts).
Conclusion
Navigating the legal requirements for getting married in Australia can be a bit daunting, especially if you need to get married quickly. By understanding the Notice of Intended Marriage and the process for shortening of time notice period, you can ensure your big day goes off without a hitch.
If you’re in need of personalized guidance, book a call with an experienced Marriage Celebrant. They’ll help you refine your plans and ensure you have all the necessary documents for a seamless experience.
Get started… Call today and take the first step toward your happily ever after.
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A warm welcome to you all, as we come together to celebrate the newest member of our family, our gorgeous little man Charlie. Today we mark a milestone not only for Charlie, but for his Mum and Dad, Kerry and Chris, big sis Poppy and for those lucky enough to be part of his extended family and friends.
Baby Naming Ceremony
It’s just over two years that Charlie has been in this world. Charlie Christopher James was born on 22 April 2016 only a very short distance from here.
We are all deeply touched by the birth of a baby. That a child is born into this world in innocence and pure love, is indeed a miracle. A tiny human who is so dependent on us for all his nurturing, his nourishment and his learning. Today we see how much Charlie has grown and developed as a result of the love and nurturing he has received.
A baby naming ceremony’s purpose is to officially give a little one their name and to make the name known to all his friends and family. A naming ceremony has an extended purpose of presenting the little one to the community and to celebrate the arrival of a new person in that community.
We all shared in the joy of Charlie’s arrival – just as we all share the responsibility of shaping him as a person. Charlie needs everyone’s good and caring influence as we offer him our love, our knowledge and our wisdom. The more people to whom he relates, the more balanced and rich his growth will be. Your presence at this celebration today is appreciated, as will be your interest and involvement in the years ahead.
Charlie – your name has been chosen with love and with the strength of individualism. We therefore name you Charlie Christopher James. We wish you long life and happiness in a loving and peaceful world. May you bring joy to your parents, your family and friends.
Poppy Big Sister’s Words
Poppy shares a poem or reads the reasons she loves Charlie
Charlie’s Great Gran is now going to read a poem entitled The Example of Parenthood
The Example of Parenthood
There are little eyes upon you and they’re watching night and day;
There are little ears that quickly take in everything you say;
There are little hands all eager to do everything you do,
And a little boy who’s dreaming of the day he’ll be like you.
You’re little Charlie’s idol you’re the wisest of the wise;
In his little mind about you no suspicions ever rise.
There’s a wide-eyed little boy who believes you’re always right,
And his ears are always open as he watches day and night.
You are setting an example every day in all you do.
For the little boy who’s waiting to grow up to be like you.
Promises of Godparents in a Baby Naming Ceremony
Kerry and Chris have asked 4 family members to be God parents to Charlie. Aunty Charlotte, Uncle Tom, Aunty Silvi and Uncle Dave please come forward
Guardians are named individuals chosen by the parents to take an interest in the child’s upbringing and personal development.
So, I formally ask you all:
Will you stay close to Charlie to the best of your ability? We will
Will you help to guide him through life healthfully and happily? We will
Will you try to be a good influence by your own way of living, encourage him to observe worthy principles, and decent treatment of his fellow human beings and his world? We will
Will you encourage and support the challenges of his dual heritage, in particular his bizarre yet devoted support of the Broncos, (given that he was born and lives in NSW) and the constant battle of how to pronounce yoghurt and vitamins. 😊 We Will
Promises for everyone
Kerry and Chris are aware that raising a child holds big responsibilities, and takes a village. They feel blessed and privileged to include all of you in the circle of love and support that will surround Charlie as he travels through life. It is important that they are able to ask for support on occasion, and for Charlie to be able to gain counsel from family and friends – people he can trust to go to as he grows.
With this in mind, will you help to offer Charlie a broad and balanced view of life, We will
Will you encourage him in the virtues we all agree as good – integrity, honesty, concern, fairness and love toward all his fellow human beings. We will
Will you be dedicated a shoulder to lean on, a phone call or simple a supportive text for Kerry and Chris when Charlie starts to challenge them in ways that today they can’t even imagine – I’m thinking teenage years – I’m the father of three boys so I know what I’m talking about! We will
Conclusion
As we draw this baby naming ceremony to a close, I say to you, Charlie, may life’s richest joys and blessings be yours. May you grow in health of body and mind to full adulthood and may it be your good fortune to play some worthy part in making life more pleasant for those whose paths you cross.
On behalf of Chris and Kerry I’d like to thank you for your attendance, affirmations and support in the past, present and future.
The first wedding dance is a magical moment that signifies the union of two souls in love. It’s a time when newlyweds take to the dance floor to celebrate their commitment in front of their family and friends. While the dance itself is a beautiful and heartfelt expression of love, it’s essential to navigate the dance floor with grace and adhere to certain wedding dance etiquette. In this article, we will explore the dos and don’ts of first wedding dance etiquette , ensuring that you and your partner glide smoothly through this memorable moment.
Selecting the Right Song
The first step in ensuring a graceful first wedding dance is choosing the perfect song. The song you select should hold special meaning for you as a couple, reflecting your love story and your journey together. It’s essential that both you and your partner resonate with the chosen song. Additionally, consider the tempo and lyrics of the song. It should be a piece of music that allows for graceful movements and emotional expression.
Dance Style and Dance Lessons
Select a dance style that suits your personalities and the atmosphere of your wedding. Common choices include the classic waltz, a romantic slow dance, or a more energetic and upbeat dance style like the foxtrot or swing. Once you’ve chosen your style, consider taking dance lessons to perfect your moves. Professional dance lessons can provide you with the confidence and skills to dance with grace and elegance. These lessons will not only help you navigate the dance floor with grace but also provide a unique bonding experience as a couple.
Timing and Choreography
Work with your dance instructor to perfect the timing of your dance. The dance should have a natural flow and not feel rushed or forced. Choreograph the dance to have a well-defined beginning and ending, incorporating movements that feel comfortable and authentic. Practice the choreography until it becomes second nature, ensuring that you can dance with grace and poise. This preparation will not only make your first dance look graceful but also help you feel at ease on the dance floor.
Dance in Comfortable Attire
Select wedding attire that allows you to move comfortably on the dance floor. Wedding gowns should be fitted in a way that allows you to move your legs freely, while grooms should ensure that their suits or tuxedos don’t restrict their movements. If your attire is particularly formal, consider having a second, more comfortable outfit for the reception. This way, you can dance with ease while still enjoying the elegance of your wedding attire during the ceremony. Wearing comfortable attire ensures that you can navigate the dance floor with grace and ease.
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Communicate with Your Partner
Dancing gracefully as a couple requires communication and cooperation. During the dance, maintain eye contact with your partner. This connection not only adds to the romance of the moment but also helps with coordination and balance. Nonverbal cues and subtle gestures can help guide your movements and create an elegant and harmonious dance. Effective communication with your partner ensures that you navigate the dance floor with grace and synchronicity.
Include Your Guests
After the initial part of your first dance, consider inviting your guests to join you on the dance floor. The act of inviting others to dance with you can be a lovely way to transition from the formalities of the first dance to the lively celebration of the wedding reception. Make your guests feel included and part of the celebration as you dance with grace and joy. Including your guests in this way adds an extra layer of charm to your wedding dance and helps to create a warm and inviting atmosphere.
Dance Floor Etiquette
While dancing, be mindful of the dance floor etiquette. Avoid stepping on the train of your wedding gown or tripping on a too-long veil. Grooms should ensure that their movements don’t lead to any wardrobe malfunctions. It’s also important to be aware of the space around you and avoid bumping into other couples on the dance floor. Gracefully navigate the space with respect and consideration. Adhering to dance floor etiquette ensures that you and your partner dance with grace while maintaining a considerate and elegant presence.
Practice and Confidence
The key to a graceful first wedding dance is practice and confidence. Rehearse your dance routine until you and your partner are comfortable with the moves. This practice will not only make your dance look polished but also help alleviate any nervousness. The more confident you feel on the dance floor, the more gracefully you’ll move. Building confidence through practice is essential in ensuring that you navigate the dance floor with grace and self-assuredness.
Capture the Moment
Work with your photographer and videographer to ensure they capture your first dance beautifully. Discuss lighting and any specific shots you want to include in your wedding album or video. This documentation will allow you to relive the graceful moments of your first dance for years to come. The captured moments not only serve as a testament to your graceful dance but also as a way to cherish the elegance and beauty of the moment.
Be Present
Above all, be present in the moment. Your first wedding dance is a time to connect with your partner, express your love, and celebrate the beginning of your life together. Dance with grace and poise, but also dance with your heart. Embrace the magic of the moment, and let your love shine through. These moments of presence and connection not only make your first dance graceful but also imbue it with a profound sense of meaning and emotion.
The first wedding dance is a poignant and cherished tradition, a symbol of love and commitment. To navigate the dance floor with grace, it’s crucial to choose the right song, learn the appropriate dance style, practice your choreography, and communicate with your partner. Be mindful of dance floor etiquette, choose comfortable attire, and include your guests in the celebration. With practice and confidence, you can dance with grace and poise, creating a memorable and beautiful moment that will be treasured for a lifetime. So, when the music starts playing, take your partner’s hand, step onto the dance floor, and let the grace of your love shine through in every move.
The first dance is more than just a tradition; it’s an opportunity to showcase the love and connection you share with your partner. As you glide across the dance floor, remember that you’re not only dancing for your guests but for each other. This moment is a testament to your love and the commitment you’ve made to each other. The graceful, elegant, and well-coordinated dance reflects the harmony and understanding you have as a couple, and it’s a memory that will stay with you throughout your journey together.
Paperwork/Legals only weddings are becoming an increasingly popular option for couples who want a quick and simple way to get married. These types of weddings focus solely on the legal requirements of getting married, without any added frills or traditional ceremonies.
What are Paperwork/Legals Only Weddings?
Paperwork/Legals only weddings are essentially a stripped-down version of a traditional wedding. They involve completing all the legal requirements for getting married, such as signing the marriage certificate and having it witnessed by an authorized person and two witnesses. This means that there is no formal ceremony or exchange of personal vows. There is a brief “ceremony” where mandatory sentences are shared by the Celebrant and the couple.
Why Choose a Paperwork/Legals Only Wedding?
There are several reasons why couples may opt for a Paperwork/Legals only wedding.
For some, Legals only marriages are often chosen by couples looking to get married as soon as possible without the expense of a traditional wedding ceremony. This may be due to a variety of reasons, including:
formalising a couple’s relationship prior to moving overseas
preferring to be married prior to the birth of a child
avoiding the expense of a bigger celebration
preferring a more intimate and low-key approach to getting married
to be legally married prior to an overseas celebration or traditional cultural celebration at another place and time
Preparing for a Paperwork/Legals Only Wedding
A Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) needs to be completed and lodged with your Celebrant at least one month before the ceremony. You will also need to provide proof of identity (a Passport will cover this) and any other documentation such as proof of divorce or death of a previous spouse.
Prior to your legals only ceremony a Declaration of No Impediment to Marriage must be signed to indicate you are consenting to marry of your own free will and you are legally entitled to marry.
What to Expect
As mentioned, legals only weddings do not involve any traditional ceremonies or exchanging of vows. The focus is solely on completing the legal requirements for marriage. This means that the ceremony itself will be quite short and simple.
During the legals only ceremony, you will be required to sign three marriage certificates in the presence of the Celebrant and two witnesses. All documents are then submitted for legal registration to Births Deaths and Marriages in the State of Australia where you are marrying.
When planning a Legals only wedding, it is important to choose a celebrant who is authorized to perform marriages in your location. Couples should also consider a celebrant who specializes in Legals only weddings, such as Michael Janz. Michael will ensure you feel comfortable with his warm but professional demeanor.
Michael has extensive experience in conducting legals only weddings and can guide couples through the process with ease. He can also provide witnesses, as necessary for a small additional fee. Michael is dedicated to ensuring that your legals only wedding runs smoothly and stress-free. Michael can conduct ceremonies in his home office and is able to provide onsite parking for the ceremony. If you prefer, Michael can also travel to a location of your choice for the ceremony.
Conclusion
Paperwork/Legals only weddings may not have all the traditional elements of a traditional wedding, but they offer an efficient and cost-effective option for couples who are looking to marry with minimal fuss. They are a great option for couples who want to complete the legal requirements of marriage before celebrating with a larger, more traditional ceremony at another location. By choosing an experienced celebrant like Michael Janz, you can have peace of mind knowing that all legalities will be carried out in a professional and timely manner.
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Want a low budget wedding without all the fuss of a traditional big wedding?
Budget Weddings in Sydney are often called Legals Only Weddings in Sydney (aka Paperwork Only Weddings) are increasingly popular for couples. Budget Weddings in Sydney are ideal for couples who want to be legally married, without the ceremony, without possible drama or expense of a typical more elaborate wedding with witnesses only attending.
Want a no fuss, no stress inexpensive wedding?
Budget Weddings in Sydney aka Legals Only weddings are ideal for couples who don’t have the time, money or desire to have an elaborate ceremony. They are perfect for a couple who plan to celebrate at another time or place with family and friends. The beauty of these weddings is that they are cost-effective and stress-free – leaving more time to think about other important details such as your honeymoon destination!
What is a Legals Only Wedding?
This blog post, explores what constitutes Budget Weddings in Sydney aka Legals Only Wedding, legal requirements and why some couples might consider it as their ultimate solution. Read on and find out how to make your dream day still special but with much less hassle and cost.
Elena and Brian Signing their Marriage Certificates
7 steps of a Legals Only Wedding:
Get started for a Legals Only Wedding
1. Firstly speak to an Authorised Marriage Celebrant who you connect with and is skilled in conducting Budget Weddings in Sydney aka Legals Only Wedding. Make a booking for your Legals Only Wedding.
2. Secondly your Marriage Celebrant will provide assistance to help you complete your Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM). Your Celebrant will provide the NOIM for you to complete prior to it being signed and witnessed.
3. Email the “Notice of Intended Marriage” (NOIM) to your Celebrant who will enter your information into the NSW Births, Deaths and Marriages Portal. Your Celebrant will send the document to you for checking.
Set up a Face to Face
4. Arrange a time to sign the “Notice of Intended Marriage” (NOIM) with your Celebrant as your authorised witness. This must be done no later than a month before your planned wedding date. This must be done face to face.
a. Your Celebrant verifies your identities. Typically, your Passport/s OR Drivers Licence AND Birth Certificate will satisfy the requirements.
b. If you have been married before, your Celebrant needs to view evidence of your Court divorce document or evidence of your last spouse’s death i.e. Death Certificate.
5. During the meeting the Celebrant provides you with a document, “Happily Ever … Before and After…Information for a couple planning to marry”.
a. Details of the legal wording that must be said by the Celebrant (3 sentences) and both partners (1 sentence each) are discussed. Furthermore you can discuss any other elements you would like to include in your Legals Only Wedding e.g. exchanging rings or sharing personal vows.
b. Additionally you will be provided with information about the other documents that need to be signed.
Your Legals Only Wedding Ceremony
6. A month or more after your Notice of Intended Marriage is lodged with your Marriage Celebrant your Legals Only ceremony can be held. The ‘Declaration of no legal impediment to marriage’ will be signed prior to the ceremony. Signing the Declaration, you declare that you are of marriageable age, and that there is no legal impediment to your marriage. In addition to the legal words which will be said, 3 Marriage Certificates will be signed and witnessed by 2 people over 18 years old. Generally they are the only guests at a Legals Only wedding. Talk to your Celebrant if you would like others to attend.
After Your Budget Weddings in Sydney
7. Finally, your Celebrant will register your marriage with the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages and will apply and pay for your Official Marriage Certificate. It is posted by registered mail to you.
Therefore, if a Legals Only wedding is for you, contact Sydney Marriage Celebrant Michael Janz for a stress-free paperwork only wedding. Michael is happy to host face to face meetings and also the ceremony with you and 2 witnesses at his Randwick home office. Importantly talk to Michael Janz Celebrant about other places you may like to hold your Legals only wedding ceremony.
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Now is a great time to book your wedding for late 2023 and 2024. If you are thinking of getting married, don’t delay your wedding plans any longer. To have a choice with popular venues, photographers and Celebrants…now is the right time. As a result of Covid19, wedding vendors are rapidly filling for 2024 and 2025.
If it’s time to book your wedding for 2024 and 2025, what’s next?
You need a plan!
Getting married is an exciting, wonderful time! However, without effective planning and coordination, it can be a stressful, overwhelming exercise. Developing your own Wedding Planning Checklist will make the planning process smoother. Think of your wedding as an important project.
Your planning needs to:
Identify how you want your wedding to look and feel before you book.
What you must have at your wedding? What’s the most important aspect of your wedding day? What do you want to remember most about your wedding day? Is there a wedding theme you want to reflect? Is it a traditional/classic wedding or elegant/contemporary or vintage or a romantic vineyard or rustic or on the beach or bohemian or just simple with no frills?
Identify a realistic budget prior to booking.
When it’s time to book your wedding for 2024/25, make sure you know the answers to to these questions. Who is funding the wedding? Do you understand the realistic costs of all the elements of your dream wedding? Are you aware you can save funds by considering dates, times that aren’t the highly in demand?
Identify the vendors you need .
Nowadays, venues, photographers and celebrants can be booked out years in advance. Consequently, booking these suppliers early is extremely wise.
Develop a timeframe.
A timeframe outlines the key steps and likely timings to make sure you enjoy your special day and create a celebration that you look back on with a smile on your face. It’s time to book your wedding for 2024 and 2025!
When it’s time to book your wedding, don’t re-invent the wheel. There are lots of free checklists available. Find a comprehensive wedding planning checklist to get a feel for things you need to do and when you should do them. You can download one here.
Here a few more reasons why it’s time to book your wedding for 2024 and 2025…
You can secure your preferred date and venue before they get booked by other couples. This is especially important if you want to get married on a popular or auspicious date.
Deals from vendors and suppliers, such as photographers, caterers, florists, and DJs. You may also be able to lock in the current prices and avoid future inflation or surcharges.
You can have more time to plan and prepare for your big day, without feeling rushed or stressed. You can also enjoy the anticipation and excitement of counting down to your wedding date.
You can give your guests more notice and time to arrange their travel and accommodation, especially if you are having a destination wedding or inviting people from overseas. You can also send out your save-the-dates and invitations earlier and get more RSVPs.
You can avoid potential conflicts or complications with other events or holidays that may affect your wedding plans, such as religious and cultural holidays, days of remembrance, major sporting events, or unlucky dates.
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Crafting your wedding vows is a beautiful way to add a personal touch to your wedding ceremony. It’s an opportunity to express your love, commitment, and promises to your partner in your own unique way. Whether you’re a bride, groom or friend helping couples prepare for their big day, these tips will make the process smoother and more meaningful. It’s a good idea to discuss this with your Marriage Celebrant too.
Why Write Your Own Wedding Vows?
Your wedding vows are a reflection of your relationship and the future you envision together. Writing your own vows allows you to:
Personalize your ceremony
Share intimate and heartfelt promises
Create lasting memories for you and your guests
Legal Requirements in Australia
Before you get started, it’s essential to know the legal requirements for wedding vows in Australia. Each person must recite a mandatory vow:
“I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, [Full Name], take you, [Full Name], to be my lawful wedded husband/wife/spouse.”
Now, let’s add some personal flair to those vows.
Preparing to Write Your Vows
Discuss with your partner – it’s important to be on the same page about the style and tone of your vows.
Set aside time for writing – give yourself enough time to reflect and write from the heart.
Consider the length – aim for one to two minutes worth of reading.
Think about what you want to include – share your love story, express your promises, or include inside jokes.
Take inspiration from examples online but make sure they still sound like you.
Ideas for Writing Your Own Wedding Vows
1. Share the Same Wedding Vows
One option is to write your vows together and recite the same words to each other during the ceremony. This can symbolize unity and shared commitment.
2. Write Individual Vows Together
If you prefer to have different vows, work on them together. Write individual vows for each other but share them in advance. This ensures that your vows are similar in length and tone.
3. Surprise Each Other with Your Vows
For a more spontaneous approach, write your vows separately and keep them a secret until the ceremony. This adds an element of surprise and can make the moment even more special.
Tips for Writing Heartfelt Wedding Vows
Reflect on Your Relationship: Think about what makes your relationship unique. Recall special moments, shared experiences, and the qualities you love most about your partner.
Be Sincere: Speak from the heart. Authenticity resonates more than elaborate language.
Include Promises: Vows often include promises. Think about what you want to promise your partner—whether it’s to support them through thick and thin or to always make them laugh.
Keep It Simple and Concise: While it’s important to be heartfelt, try to keep your vows between one and two minutes long. This keeps the ceremony flowing and maintains the attention of your guests.
Practice: Once you’ve written your vows, practice reading them aloud. This helps you feel more comfortable and ensures that your words flow naturally.
Final Thoughts
Remember, there’s no right or wrong when it comes to writing your wedding vows. The most important thing is that they come from the heart. Your vows are a testament to your love and commitment, and they should reflect your unique relationship.
Discuss your ideas with your Marriage Celebrant to ensure everything goes smoothly on the day. And most importantly, enjoy the process of writing your vows—it’s a beautiful way to celebrate your love.
The format Deciding how to structure your wedding vows will give you a good jumping-off point. You don’t have to both have to write your own wedding vows in the same format but it does tend to help keep them consistent so that one person isn’t reciting something pages long while the other is done and dusted in two sentences.
[Vow-starter] The first time I saw you, I…
[Promise] I promise to be…
[Promise] I promise we’ll…
[Promise] I promise to love you…
[Vow-starter] You give me…
[Vow-starter] Together, we’ll spend our lives… Consider giving yourself a word count, say 200 words max. That way, you know you’ll both have vows similar in length. Whatever the format, if you both do the same, then you’ll be fine.
How Long Should My Vows be?
There’s no right or wrong length to wedding vows. It is suggested through it may be wise to reach an agreed approximate length with your partner. Remember its not a competition, it’s expressing what’s important from your heart.
As a guide most vows take between 45 seconds and around 2 minutes. From a word count perspective 2-minute-long vows would be around 260 words. The 2 example vows below will give a feel for vows that would take just over 2 minutes and just under. Allen’s vows below are 331 words in length whereas Anna’s vows are 236 words in length.
What could Personal Wedding Vows Look Like Here is an example of an actual Couple’s Personal Vows that were built from a common agreement on format and number of words. You can see they evolved slightly differently. These like many were kept a secret from their partner. Allan… I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, Allan Jeremy Smith, take you, Anna Elizabeth Jones, to be my lawful wedded wife. Anna, your ten-year free trial period expires today! Ten years has flown by and I can’t imagine life without you. You’re my best friend, my biggest supporter and my favourite travel companion. You’ve stood by me during some of the most difficult times in my life and there is no one that I would rather have by my side to take on whatever the future may bring. Everything that we have is a result of your hard work, determination, resilience and positivity. Everything that I am is a result of your love, support and encouragement. It struck me when I was writing this that although I know these promises to be true in my heart, I’ve never made them to you in so many words. I want to rectify that now in front of the people we love. 1. I promise to love you. Plain and simple. More than that, I promise to tell you and show you that I love you so that whatever else happens in our lives, you can always be sure of that. 2. I promise to laugh with you and to cry with you. To celebrate the highs and battle through the lows. 3. I promise to support and encourage you. To smile and give you a thumbs up when you catch a good wave and to be the loudest voice in the crowd when you make a try saving tackle. 4. I promise to try not to be so annoying and to want to do what you want me to do without you having to ask! 5. I promise to work on myself so that I can be the best husband that I can be to you and, if we’re blessed with children, the best father to our kids. I love you, Annie. I always have and I always will.
Anna… I call upon the persons here present to witness that I Anna Elizabeth Jones take you Allan Jeremy Smith to be my lawful wedded husband. It was 10 years ago today since we first met and I already knew on that day I felt something special with you, even if I didn’t show it. You are clever and fun and although you have the ability to drive me mad you also give me comfort and care. You fit into my family and they love you as much as I do. This wasn’t the day we had initially planned but I love you for supporting me through the roller coaster it has been and even ‘volunteering’ to plan this one. No matter where we are in the world I’ll always be at home with you. The most important part of the day is remembering all the commitments we have already made together over the years and the commitment we are making here today. I have a few promises to start our married lives together. 1. I promise that one day we will travel again and see more new places. 2. I promise to be more patient with your ‘half a job’ behaviours. 3. I promise to support you in the difficult times, stand by your side and work towards our dreams. 4. I promise to be faithful to you. 5. And I promise to love you unconditionally.
Thought-starting questions When writing your wedding vows, these thought starters will help with filling the gaps. You’ll find yourself coming up with some pretty good stuff that you can include or reference in the vows. What did you think when you first saw them? Was it love at first sight? At what moment did you know this person was the one you wanted to marry? Why? When did you realise you were in love? What are the little things they do for you that you appreciate? What are the little things you do for them that they appreciate? What do you want to work on in your relationship to make it even stronger? Tip: this can be serious – or not. What do you have now that you didn’t before? Tip: think head and heart, not material things. For example, ‘an appreciation for homemade pasta’ or ‘a newfound open-mindedness and acceptance of people, thanks to our time exploring the world’. What have they taught you? Tip: be serious and lighthearted too. For example, ‘You’ve taught me to stand up for the things I believe in. And you’ve taught me the many virtues of watching cricket. Actually, no, we’re still working on that’. Have you gone through adversity together? What did it mean to you to have them by your side? What inspires you about them? What do you respect most about them? What does marriage mean to you? What are you most looking forward to for your shared future? What goals and values do you both share? Tip: again, feel free to get playful. For example, you might share a mutual appreciation for a crisp craft beer to kick off a Saturday, or a Wednesday night Netflix-and-chill – but with actual Netflix. What do you miss most about them when they’re away? What’s your favourite thing about them? What’s the most annoying thing that they do? Where was your first date? How did it go? What’s the most embarrassing moment you’ve had together? How about the most romantic moment? What special quirk do you love about them that no one else would realise? Have you traveled together? What did that teach you about them? Did you guys have a rocky start? Why, and what made you guys overcome it? Do they have a sporting team, band, clothing item or event they’re obsessed with? What have you experienced together that you never would have on your own?
That’s seriously the hard part done. Now that you’ve fleshed out some of your relationship history, highlight the answers that stand out to you as the most poignant, insightful, heartfelt and fun. You don’t need to do this immediately – return to it in a few days’ time and then review. Your favourite answers will stand out. These are the answers you want to take elements from to weave into your vows. Next step: agree on a format. The earlier one is a great start. Then, pick some promise starters and vow starters from below, or make up your own and write your own wedding vows.
Promise starters: I promise to give you… I promise to treat you… I promise to tell you… I promise to love you… I promise to respect you… I promise to laugh at… I promise to be… I promise to always encourage… I promise that we’ll…
Vow starters: I vow to… I’ll always… Together, we’ll… When you’re up, I’ll… When you’re down, I’ll… Our future will bring us… I will never let… You make me… You give me… Because of you, I see the world… We share… Life is better infinitely better with you in it because… I’m proud of… Your smile makes me… I admire… You’ve taught me… I look forward to… I’m crazy about… I value your… I can’t believe that… The first time I saw you, I… I realised I loved you when…
The decision whether you write your own vows is entirely your choice. Your Marriage Celebrant can help with the range of choices you have.
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A wedding video immortalizes the emotions, moments, and memories of one of the most significant days in a couple’s life. It’s not merely a recording, but a cinematic storytelling that captures the essence of the union and celebration. Creating an exceptional wedding video requires a blend of technical skill, artistry, and heartfelt storytelling. Here are the key ingredients that contribute to making a good wedding video.
Authentic Storytelling
Narrative Arc: A quality wedding video should tell a story. It’s not just about capturing events as they happen, but crafting a narrative that reflects the couple’s relationship, personalities, and the significance of their wedding day.
Personal Touches: Highlight personal details – the handwritten vows, the nervous smiles, the tears of joy, the particular decor that the couple chose, and the candid laughter. These moments, often overlooked, weave depth into the wedding story.
Artistic Cinematography
Composition and Framing: Like any cinematic work, the composition of each shot is critical. Good framings tell a story by themselves, capturing the setting, emotions, and interactions in a visually appealing manner.
Lighting: Good lighting is paramount – it sets the mood and adds a touch of magic to the visuals. Whether it’s the soft backlight of a sunset ceremony or the vibrant colors of the dance floor, good wedding videos use light to enhance the storytelling.
Camera Movement: Smooth, purposeful movement of the camera, whether through gliding steadicam shots or dynamic drone footage, adds interest and a professional polish to your wedding video.
High-Quality Editing
Pacing: A well-edited wedding video has a rhythm that matches the energy of the day, oscillating between fast-paced sequences to slower, more intimate moments.
Music Selection: The right music can underscore emotions and accentuate key moments. A good wedding video uses a soundtrack that complements the visual content and reflects the couple’s tastes.
Transitions: Clean and creative transitions smooth the flow from one scene to the next, maintaining the viewer’s attention and enhancing the story’s coherence.
Emotional Resonance
Capturing Key Moments: Certain parts of the day – the first look, the exchange of rings, the first kiss as a married couple, the first dance – are essential and expected in any wedding video.
Focus on People: The best wedding videos focus on the people, from the happy couple to the tearful parents, the playful flower girls, and the best man’s hearty laugh. It’s these human elements that elicit emotional responses.
Genuine Reactions: Catching genuine reactions, like the faces of the guests during the vows or the eruption of cheers after the “I do’s,” add depth and a sense of being present.
Technical Excellence
Sound Quality: Clear audio is crucial, especially for vows, speeches, and interviews.
Professional Equipment: High-definition cameras, stabilization equipment, and professional editing software contribute towards a crisp and aesthetically pleasing end product.
Backup Plans: Having contingencies for unexpected weather, lighting issues, or technical failures ensure the final video is uninterrupted in its quality.
Conclusion
In summary, a good wedding video melds professional quality with personal expression. It respects the day’s spontaneity while telling a structured, emotional story. It emphasizes people, emotions, and those irreplaceable, fleeting moments that uniquely belong to the couple’s special day. It’s an art form where the final piece serves as a timeless treasure for couples to cherish throughout their married life.
Remember, the essence of what makes a good wedding video lies beyond the equipment and technique; it resides in the ability to capture love, in all its moving beauty, on film
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In Australia, couples must complete and lodge a Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) at least one month before their wedding date. This document not only serves as a formal declaration of your intention to marry but also provides essential details required by the Marriage Act.
Paperwork/Legals only weddings may not have all the traditional elements of a 
